Nice Guys have been conditioned to believe that if they are "good" and do everything "right", they will be loved, get their needs met, and have a smooth life. Sound too good to be true? It is. This belief is a myth, which only leaves Nice Guys feeling frustrated, lonely, and powerless. There is nothing wrong with being nice.  But the Nice Guy does it to seek approval and avoid rejection.  He's a people-pleaser.  He constantly sets his own needs and wants aside, and pretends to be something he's …